Dating a man during divorce
Any advice would be wonderful- thanks in advance for your response!Dear Sara, We all make judgments based on our own experience.It’s hard enough when it’s just you, your ex, and the kids.
The exact quote was “if you’ve mourned, if you’ve healed, if you’ve made peace – then you’re ready whenever you say you’re ready.” Allow me to correct myself. I have a client who went out with a man who was separated. On the other hand, you’ve heard tales of men who went seamlessly from one relationship to another without a break.One Last Thing If you’re the person willing to date someone while they’re going through divorce, then there are some unpleasantries you should be prepared for.You will fall under scrutiny you may not be prepared to handle, getting dragged through the proverbial mud.It wasn’t a question of whether he and his wife were going to divorce – the relationship was toxic, the lawyers were in place, it was definitely over. They were well-matched and perfectly adorable together. You can listen to all these stories, but they won’t inform YOUR situation.The real concern was whether this guy needed time and space after the demise of his marriage. Here are the three points I’d like you to take away from this blog post: A person who hides his separation online isn’t necessarily a bad person.